Thursday 23 August 2012

Sally: A well loved member of our crazy family! A Toys R Us Review!





Toys R Us is where she came from 
all those years ago
she's really now a part of us

we'd never let her go!

Yes, our lovely new addition, 
Sally, pretty and so sweet!
with long blonde hair, buttercup soft skin
And tiny shoes upon her feet!



We've had Sally a few years now!
So she's in a little mess
my daughters love to change her clothes
so she's usually undressed!

Sally is taller than my daughter
and quieter no less!
With opened arms 
we welcomed her
she really is the best!

Sally's been on holiday with us, 
and sleeps in Roxys bed!
Shes even had her hair brushed 
Over a million billion times,
Constantly kissed upon her head!

Sally has such a pretty smile
with gorgeous clothes to wear!
Roxy loves to share her headbands
to put into Sally's hair.

Sally has even helped us,
teaching life-skills to my Rox
like how to sit on the potty
or even how to pull up socks!

This life sized doll is worth it
every penny you will spend
Sally will be part of you forever
and you won't ever want to lend! 



She's a dolly and a sister
and a new friend rolled in one!
Just look at our Sally
and you'll soon see all the fun!

A perfect gift or present
for any little girl
Sally is so very special.....

.............I promise she'll brighten up your world! 


Well, after all that I'm betting now you want a Sally of your own! Well worry ye not! Here is the LINK to Sally and her even cuter brother Sam! Its not only little girls that need a friend after all!

If you  have your own Sally or Sam do feel free to post a picture of the fun they have with YOUR family!

http://www.toysrus.co.uk/index.jsf?fh_eds=%3f&fh_view_size=10&fh_refview=lister&fh_refpath=facet_42&fh_start_index=0&fh_location=%2f%2ftrus%2fen_GB%2fcategories%3C%7btrus_trus%7d%2fitemtype%3dproduct%2f%24s%3dsally%5cu0020doll&fh_reffacet=gender&media=web

Saturday 11 August 2012

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Wednesday 18 July 2012

Please lick your plate??? PLEASE!




Oh what can I do!
Oh woe, woe is me!
My child won't eat a bean,
nor even a pea!
How will she grow up
to be healthy, strong tall,
How will I cope
if she just won't play ball?
I coax her with food
be it spicy or simple
but a shake of her head,
all blonde curls and dimples
tells me 'No mummy no!
I will not eat that!
those sausages are as tempting
as an over-cooked rat!'
So I fuss and I dither
over what next I can try
be it fish fingers
or a delicious hot pie!
Warm stews and carrots
or potatoes and mince
but each time she says no
my heart gives a wince!
so I had an idea,
of what I could do
yes, it would mean for us all
a few changes or two!
I take her to the kitchen
and she sits next to me
as I chop up her food
I just let her see
food isn't an enemy
something to hate
its there for your health darling
So please lick your plate!!
And so with gusto
she'll now stir the pot
us watching carefully
because, of course, its hot!
she stirs and she giggles
knowing she's making dinner
and if this helps her eat it
then we'll both be the winner!
We sit as a family
the table all laid
she watches us all eat
the dinner we've made
she samples and licks
tentatively at first
sipping her water to quench her thirst
then YES! takes a nibble!
Oh what a score!
She's slowly chewing
and now asking for more???
Could this be real?
My daughter wants food?
delicious hot rolls
are now being chewed!
 She smiles at me wickedly
like deep down she knew
all the trouble we went through
to get her to chew!
So yes, we have cracked it,
and no food go's to waste
she's enjoying my dinners!
Well, she HAS got good taste!

Just in case you have a fussy toddler like mine! Here is a link to a very interesting book that I found helped me! :-) http://www.amazon.co.uk/Tips-Fussy-Eaters-Gina-Ford/dp/0091935156/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1342634408&sr=8-2

Tuesday 15 May 2012

A bit about my Hubby-to-be! (25 days baby!)


Some of you reading this may know that in 25 short days me and my beloved will be hitched, united in matrimony and stuck with each other forever! I cannot wait to be Mrs Talbot-Ashby! There are very few, & I cannot wait to be one of 'em & up the numbers a little!








I met Rich online, a place called Myspace http://www.myspace.com/, and to cut a long story very short, I thought he was a soldier and messaged him in the style of Mr T, he thought I was Spam, we texted, we chatted, he pretended to fling himself out of a window, & then invited me to Italy, I declined & we had a first date in London, to which both of us spent the entire time quoting 'Friends' with Joeys iconic 'LONDON BABY!' 

Together we ate a burger from The Fine Burger Company http://www.fineburger.co.uk/, he made me laugh and blush so often I was re-heating the food simply by looking at it! The second I realised I was actually really falling for this fellow was when he leaned in close,
 ( he smelled of bodyshop White Musk So YUMMY! http://www.thebodyshop.co.uk/_en/_gb/catalog/product.aspx?ParentCatCode=C_Mens&CatCode=C_Mens_Fragrance&prdcode=42711m!)
& said
"I have never seen anybody as gorgeous.........as that woman sat over there in the red top!'
I laughed so hard I early cried, gorgeous AND funny? Really? Do these men really exist?

They really do. :-) 


Anyhoo, now we have been together over six years, he wants to be my hubby! I have had terrible taste in men in the past, really really bad, so being with someone who is not only my fiance, my boyfriend and the father to my children, but my real life best mate who I can tell ANYTHING to, is such an amazing achievement!

I spent a long time as  single parent, a long time telling myself men were this, men were that, useless, devoid of emotion, and I was quite expecting to bring up my two sons as a single mum. At the time, I really & truly was happy with this, I loved the fact I could stay up as long as I wanted without annoying anyone, I had my own space, I was working as a teaching assistant in a school with kids with behavioral problems, & singing in a rock/pop band, and to me, life was pretty peachy and I felt I was at the top of my game.


I think that's when good things happen, when you're so busy to notice it!


To try to sum Richy up would take me years, he is actually quite complex! However these are just some of the reasons why I think he's awesome!

1. He can make a blinding cuppa, first thing in the morning without fail he always makes me a cuppa so I can wake up properly!

2. He does MORE than his fair share with the kids, from changing bums to helping sort out dodgy tums! He is a very hands-on dad.
3. How he works so hard, rain or shine, no matter that we have no car and he has to walk miles in the rain/snow/sleet, he does it, and never ever complains either, always pushing himself so that he can climb the ladder so to speak...
4. I can tell him anything, from Periods to pineapples, there is no subject I can't discuss with him.
5.I love how he looks a little like Captain Caveman when he first wakes up and hasn't shaved for a while.....
 I could go on and on and on.............. :-D

Anyways!.... now, every night, I go over and over our first dance ( its a bit different!) and I think about our vows to one another, and I think about how proud I shall be walking out of that room with him as my husband, and I know that I shall dedicate the rest of my life just trying to make him smile and happy. Hell, I have seen so many marriages go wrong, my own parents for one, so I will not be taking those vows lightly. He is my best friend, my comforter, my confidante, just everything to me. And I cannot wait until June 9th! x x x 

Wednesday 25 April 2012

My top ten Books...The best way to escape!

Books! Ain't they great!
 I love to read, I read in the bath, on the loo ( Sorry TMI, but comes from the days that we had a stack of  Mandy's, Dandy's and Beano's nestled in our bathroom!) BUT I am gutted for kids that they just don't seem to have the passion for reading these days.
I understand, a computer gives you instant access to a world where you feel involved, a fantastic escape, but so do books! But it all depends on you as a parent for how you get your kids into books.
Do you read alot yourself? Granted, a lot of the time there just isn't enough hours in the day, but MAKE time. Reading for yourself will make your kids sit up and want to do it themselves, our own little copy-cats!


My idea of Heaven...Just throw in some digestives and I'm there baby! 



My kids only started to love to read because of one book I shared with them from my childhood. I had great fun reading it to them, I made the characters sound fun, I screamed where it was needed, I left them wondering at the end of each chapter what was going to happen next.....Before I knew it, I had got them!
I blogged a little about this book the other day, Room 13 by Robert Swindells. Its a fantastic book, its slightly scary, about kids on a school trip and their encounter with ....Nawww, you'll have to read it for yourself, blimey there are some cracking good reads out there! 


I am actually pretty soon going to be related to one of those! Teresa Ashby ( http://www.amazon.co.uk/s/ref=nb_sb_noss_1?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=Teresa+Ashby&x=0&y=0!) has been a writer pretty much all her life. I love her way of writing, I always feel comfortable in her stories, and that is what I look for when I'm reading a book, just how quickly have I adjusted to this authors use of words?
Teresa does a lot of magazine work, as well as taking care of her grandchildren. I really don't know how she does it! But a lovelier writer you couldn't hope to meet. Read her cracking blogs here! ( I am hoping to learn alot, namely how to shorten my blogs lol) 
http://teresaashby.blogspot.co.uk/



So I guess I'll start my top ten with Firestarter!


10. Firestarter. Stephen King 

It starts with Charlie McGee, ( In the film played by a very young Drew Barrymore) Many years before her mother and father participated in a psychological study back in college which gave them very strange powers indeed. However, theirs is nothing compared to what their beautiful baby daughter can do....This sparks interest in the Founders of the study and they want little Charlie, and will stop at nothing to get her back. 


 http://www.amazon.co.uk/Firestarter-Stephen-King/dp/0340899042/ref=sr_1_13?ie=UTF8&qid=1335349058&sr=8-13

The book made me cry, the film made me cry harder, however it will always be a firm favourite.



9. Second Child. John Saul.  


Secret Cove. Ruggedly beautiful and remote, bordered by dark woods and deserted beaches, this postcard-perfect village harbours the mansions of the wealthy - families who have summered in splendid seclusion at Secret Cove for generations.

Here, one hundred years ago, on the night of the annual August Moon Ball, a shy and lovely servant girl committed a single, unspeakable act of violence - an act so shocking its legacy lives still. And now, long after the horror of that night has faded to a tale whispered by children around summer camp fires, an unholy terror is about to be reborn. Now, one family is about to feel the icy hand of supernatural fear - as Melissa Holloway, shy and troubled and just thirteen years old, comes to know the blood-drenched secret that waits behind a locked attic door ....

For in the dead of night as Secret Cove sleeps unaware, a soul-chilling presence slowly begins to enact a terrifying vengeance. 


Most of John Saul's books are terribly frightening, and based around young children, which makes them more terrifying. I do love to be scared, however in John Saul's books you are never quite sure who the goody or baddie is until the final twist, which is why he is such a favourite with me. 
http://www.amazon.co.uk/Second-Child-John-Saul/dp/0553058770/ref=sr_1_30?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1335349407&sr=1-30 



8.  Heaven By Virginia Andrews.  




Such a fabulous story. I love it, I never wanted the family saga to end.

HER NAME WAS HEAVEN, HER LIFE WAS ANYTHING BUT
Heaven’s mother Angel,  had died in childbirth, and from that moment her father turned against her. Her only allies, it seemed, were her four half-brothers and sisters.
When their father, poor and desperate, sold them to strangers, Heaven was left alone and friendless. Her only hope was to reunite her family. But how?
So begins the heartbreaking, magical story of the Casteel family, continued in ‘Dark Angel’, ‘Fallen Hearts’, ‘Gates of Paradise’ and ‘Web of Dreams’.
One of the most tragic yet beautiful stories I have read. 

7. Bless the Child. Cathy Cash-Spellman 



AN INNOCENT CHILD IN MORTAL DANGER. AN AGE-OLD BATTLE BETWEEN GOOD AND EVIL.
 Vibrant, youthful, and a grandmother at forty-two, Maggie O'Connor has lovingly raised her drug-addicted daughter's child ever since the newborn appeared on her doorstep three years ago. But when little Cody is kidnapped and sequestered inside a satanic cult, Maggie's world is shattered by unimaginable evil. Drawing strength from the bond she shares with her granddaughter, Maggie vows to fight anyone and everyone who dares to claim this child for themselves. Even the Devil.



This had to be in my top ten, as the story grips me like no other. I love the belief of life after death, and they touch upon this a lot in this book. If you have watched the film, it barely even TOUCHES the book, a sad disappointment to the book, but worth watching on its own ground. Stars Kim Basinger. http://books.google.co.uk/books/about/Bless_the_Child.html?id=kSbBhpHh1M0C&redir_esc=y


6. Flowers in the Attic. Virginia Andrews. 



Cathy and her brother Chris and their younger twin siblings are waiting for their beloved Daddy to come home for his surprise party. They get the surprise though with the tragedy that soon unfolds. A loving mother turns into a stranger they barely know, an evil grandmother who knows no love for the Devils Spawn' she believes her grandchildren to be, and a moment of love, that despite laws, no-one could blame anyone for. A story of life, death and hardship but most of all the courage to escape the claws of evil before the children are lost to the world forever.


The first Virginia Andrews book I ever read, and it is a corker. An absolute must-read, but have a hanky ready!   http://fallenangels.fan-sites.org/books/vcandrews/dollanganger/

5. Intensity; Dean Koontz 



I have watched the film of this, and Edgler Vess is actually played by one of my favourite actors, and actually does the guy justice! Shame its not on DVD as its a corker of a film, really a tense thriller that you can get your teeth into. Edgler Vess is a sociopath intent on murder. He lives for one purpose only: to satisfy all appetites as they arise, seeking ever more outrageous experience. To live with intensity. 

When he attacks her friend, Laura, Chyna Shepherd is saved by the instincts developed during a dark and turbulent childhood. Not knowing Laura is already dead, Chyna follows, hoping to save her friend, as Vess carries her body to his motor home - a dungeon and morgue on wheels. The killer, unaware of her presence, drives away.  But Chyna is now trapped in his dangerous orbit.

 Her sole aim is to get out alive, but when she learns the identity of the killer's next intended victim, a young girl he has abducted and keeping at home in his cellar, she knows she must act to save that precious life - and take risks beyond any that she ever imagined she could endure.

So tense, if you bite your nails on a regular basis I suggest having a teething ring handy for this book, I usually have to read it sitting bolt upright, as you cannot slouch when Edgler Vess is about! http://www.amazon.co.uk/Intensity-Dean-Koontz/dp/0747248400/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1335358867&sr=1-1



4.The Adultery Club; Tess Stimson


Something a little less sad and gruesome! I never thought I would get into any kind of chic-lit, what a mistake that was! I had read this book in one evening, not because it was so easy to read but simply because the story had got me hook line and sinker!

  Nicholas Lyon is the perfect husband—a handsome divorce attorney who dotes on his family. Sara Kaplan is the perfect seductress—a vivacious young lawyer unburdened by sexual scruples. And Malinche Lyon is the perfect wife—a beautiful cookbook writer and mother to three darling daughters. Now, in this smart, wickedly sexy novel, Nick, Sara, and Malinche are all about to join…The Adultery Club

Suddenly Nicholas—a man totally in love with his wife—is fantasizing about Sara. Sara is toying with Nick. And Malinche is facing temptations of her own. While appetites are whetted and sated from London to the English countryside, one heretofore happily married man and two very different women are about to discover the difference between fulfilling your wildest desires—and getting your just deserts!


3.The Walking Dead; Charlie Adlard & Robert Kirkman.


Now you might have caught the last two series of the Walking Dead on Sky, however yet again, the programme does not touch the books, and the programme is great in itself. 
I bought these for my fella after a friend of his at work loaned him the first two, and we never looked back. Sadly my fella had pneumonia last Feb but these books kept him going throughout all the agony. 
Set in a comic book style, these are most definitely NOT for children!!
From sexual scenes to children having their heads cut off, ( oh Lord watch out for book seven!) This book really doesn't have anywhere to hide for any of the characters. Its gutting, like real life. Death is indiscriminate to whom he picks. No-one, not even your lead character is safe, and this makes the whole collection of books so amazing to read. The artwork is phenomenal. So if you have a Zombie-hungry fella, these would make the perfect gift! As they say, In a world ruled by the Dead, we are finally forced to start living!

Have re-read and re-read, and awaiting book fifteen!  http://www.amazon.co.uk/The-Walking-Dead-Compendium-Volume/dp/1607060760/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1335354310&sr=1-1

2.Juniper / A Year and a Day ; Monica Furlong


A beautiful story known by two names. Ninnoc is a haughty Princess who enjoys the finer things in life: That is until her Godmother Euny comes to take her for her training to become a Doran. Ninnoc is told her real name is Juniper, and that if she is to save her parents' Kingdom and her new-born baby sibling from her fathers sister, the Black Witch Meroot Juniper must take the powers of the Doran seriously. For Juniper the way Euny lives is unbelievable, the poorness, the cold winters, and the cruel way in which Euny treats her, so can she really stick at it for a Year and a day to save the ones she loves?

A beautiful book that follows on with Wise Child and Colman, full of magic and love and sheer beauty. You can almost smell the salt of the sea and feel the strength of the Dorans magic in Monica Furlongs books!  http://www.amazon.co.uk/Juniper-Monica-Furlong/dp/0679833692/ref=sr_1_4?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1335354512&sr=1-4 


So, Number one! I haven't really done these in any particular order, however my number one book has to go to............................................
 

1. Lets Pretend; Jacqueline Wilson.


When you say the name Jacqueline Wilson, these days you think of kids books, (AWESOME) kids books and perhaps the programme Tracey Beaker. However years ago when she first started, Jacqueline started writing crime/thrillers, and they are to date the first books I pack if I go away anywhere.
They are a little dated, but it honestly doesn't spoil the books one iota. Its not really so's you'd notice, and it actually makes the books a little darker.

Young Emily, a girl bordering on puberty awakens one morning to have a massive argument with her

quiet down-trodden mother, and storms off to school. On arriving home, Emily is shocked to realise her mother is now missing, and no-one knows where she could be.
In Emily's mind, there's only one answer. Her nerdy Step-father Adrian whom she dislikes.
No-one will listen to her, no-one will take her seriously, and at first Emily is enjoying the attention having a missing mother gives you, but what happens if mummy never comes back, and this is no longer fun, but reality?
Unwanted by her real father who has re-married, Emily struggles with life without her mum and tries desperately to find her. But where could she be?

This book was bought for me by my mum when I was little, the picture of the little girl on the front leading her to believe this was a kids book. Its actually a very dark twisted story that really captures the imagination. Everyone has been the kid that no-one listens to at some point or another, and I identified with this book massively. 
http://www.amazon.co.uk/Lets-Pretend-Penguin-crime-fiction/dp/0140046259/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1335353074&sr=1-1


I cannot live without reading, I read at least three books a week, whether they are new or old ones I'm re-reading. Its a home away from home, somewhere where I can hide for a while and live vicariously through a million different people. When I lived in a hostel, and there was no-where to go but the one little room I dwelled within, I turned to Books the way some people turn to God. So for your kids sake, or even your own, get a book, and get reading. My choices are mainly quite macabre, but there are a zillion different books out there from Child Wizards to the Wizard of Oz! I want to know what YOU read, what books I should try next, and maybe when they see how much pleasure can be derived from a few hundred pages of text on paper, we can all get our kids loving books as much as they love their PS3! 
Well, Maybe!





Tuesday 24 April 2012

Losing Mr. Bubbles...

He always looked so sad.....I wonder if you can get Prozac for Fish?
Bye Bye, Mr Bubbles....





Roxy loves all living creatures, slimy or scaley!
   
Roxy loved him in her own little way. He was a loyal fish, but I had noticed he was poorly for a few days now.
I think the swimming in circles and dipping to one side gave it away!
I tried all the tricks the web had given me but to no avail.
The problems were: He was barely swimming, sinking to the bottom, barely opening his gills to breathe, he'd then start swimming again then once more end up on his side. Apparently by this point of illness there is very little you can do to help. A massive water change of about 75% is needed, which I did, and I googled so many places. Its funny how attached to this little fishy I had become.
I read this message after posting about my little swimming friend by someone who sounds like they knew their fishy stuff. Here is a link if you are having any fish/animal problems that I found very useful.
http://www.justanswer.com/veterinary/experts.html
             
'Almost sounds like dropsy or TB beginings. Or, you could be feeding it too much and the water quality has gotten bad from it. Uneaten food and fish poop creates ammonia. When your tank cycles it is supposed to remove the ammonia. If you are feeding to much the uneaten food and fish poop overload the "bio-filter" and the "system" crashes. If the water quality is bad (meaning too much ammonia in this case) the fish stresses because of the toxicity. It is unhealthy and the fish is suseptible to disease and gets poisoned.'

Well, later on today I went to check on him, and sadly he had gone to that huge aquarium in the sky. Sad, I cried but knew I had to go through something much worse...telling a sensitive four year old girl that her first pet was no more.


"...So Mr. Bubbles was sad, because he felt poorly and he wanted his Mummy, ok? Like you want your Mummy when you feel poorly?"
She nods her head.
" So Mr Bubbles has gone now, where he isn't poorly anymore and he can swim all day and never get tired!"
More nodding.
"So you understand my lovely, that Mr. Bubbles has gone...I know its sad but he is now so so happy, and he loves you so much for being his mummy down here, but now hes the fastest fish in Heaven!"
A slight nod...then." So where is he?" Her big baby blues are challenging me now, I sense danger.
"He's.... in Heaven darling."
A confused look, one that can usually lead to laughter or crying. "But hes dead then?"
"Yes my darling, he was very ill and he died."

It was the latter, and I swear that when that penny finally dropped the scream probably shattered ear-drums in Africa. It was so heartbreaking to watch her hyperventilating over the fish-tank, begging him to come back and she would feed him, to come back and she would give him the biggest cuddle and even let him stay in her room!



Bless my ten year old though, he took his little sisters hand, and they went into the front room, where my little arty-dude Jordan sat and made a little cross out of lolly sticks ( Pictures to follow.) He coloured them all in with pen with 'R.I.P. Mr Bubbles' on it and told Roxy that they would have a proper burial for Mr. Bubbles in the Garden. I went to have a look and was a little dismayed to find he had dug up half of the garden with a fork, and the tiny wooden cross was slap bang where the kids walk to get on the trampoline, but said it could stay there the night until I had to move it to a better location.
I can think of better evenings spent rather than digging up dead goldfish, but its for Roxy, so It shall be done.

I wrote a poem for him, as it did move me to tears. Poor fishy friend!

Mr Bubbles.
Why did you go?
Was it because of me?
Did I feed you too much?
Too much dinner, too much tea?
Could I have saved you?
Could I have helped you stay alive?
I tried changing your water
but you were floating on one side!
You looked at me with empty eyes
I hope you weren't in pain,
I tried to help I really did
But then you'd sink again.
I do not think there's anything worse
than seeing your child cry
It really hurt her oh so much
that she didn't say goodbye.
So darling Mr. Bubbles,
I hope you've now found peace
swimming up in heaven
in a million fish filled Seas.
I hope you no longer suffer
and can swim so far and true
and we'll keep our little secret that
I flushed you down the loo.
Carrie
xxx
As you can see, a bit of an animal lover!


It was a sad day today. Mr. Bubbles had been with us only a short while, given to us by a friend as they were moving away. He was ceremoniously given to my four year old daughter as her first proper pet.
My youngest son and eldest daughter have always been so close...